About a year and a half ago, I challenged myself to reach out to a complete stranger and converse for at least 5 minutes every day. The inspiration for this began after a stranger reached out to me days prior. I was having an awful day trudging about for no apparent reason, when a stranger at a gas station asked how my day was. The exchange was brief, unexpected, and startled me a bit.
I paused a moment before answering, "Fine, and you?"
The stranger responded, "It's a beautiful day to be alive."
We said our goodbyes and parted ways not thinking much about the exchange, but those 7 words jogged endlessly in my mind later that night.
"It's a beautiful day to be alive."
This became the phrase I adopted into my life, and the phrase I live to spread. The 20 something seconds that stranger shared with me would forever change my perspective on life. We live in a world filled with never-ending stimulus, stressors, piles of work, fun, friends, pain, deadlines, what-have-you, and oftentimes get caught up in the chaos of life. It's important to take a step back and be reminded of all the wonderful things and privileges we have to be thankful for. Most importantly- the gift of being alive. Every day on this earth is something so unique, precious, such a great opportunity for learning- from the environment, within yourself, amongst others, from books, etc, and sharing the wealth of knowledge and experiences you've gained with the world around you. Things will go wrong at times, decisions may lead to unfavorable outcomes, we'll make mistakes, but that's OK. That's what makes life so beautiful, because no matter how impossible, how painful, how awful and awkward life gets, it goes on. Whether you decide to suffer and trudge along in face of defeat, or put on your boxing gloves and tackle life with a small pep talk and positive attitude, it's all up to you to decide -and you have the power to change your mind at any time. Everything is mind over matter. Prep yourself mentally, surround yourself with good influences, be a good influence to others, and you'll be prepared to conquer any challenges you face.
The lasting impact this stranger's words had on me made me realize YOU have the power to influence someone else's life. You have the power to reach out and inspire, but first you must lead by example.
I challenge each and every one of you to reach out to a complete stranger and converse for atleast 5 min. each and everday.
Whether it be while you're waiting to check out at HEB, waiting to pick up your prescription, ordering coffee at Starbucks, just do it!!!! It'll be a bit uncomfortable and intimidating at first, but I promise you it's completely worth it. What have you got to lose? If it goes terrifyingly awkward, odds are you won't ever run into that person again. If it goes well (which I know it will), then you've just made a positive impact in someone else's life, gained a bit more insight, or perhaps even shared a few laughs, the possibilities are endless.
Why live in a world amongst strangers when you can live in a world amongst friends?
Biggest Game of the Season!
Now I'm not the biggest football fan, not even close, BUT this was a very special day in Aggieland. Last year, A&M had a phenomenal 1st year in the SEC and managed to beat a strong rival, Alabama 29-24. Spirits were high (both the type sold at Spec's and the other one that makes you feel on tingly inside) as College Station welcomed around 70,000 out of town spectators (including ESPN). This year, I decided to beat the heat and enjoy the game with good ol' A.C, fresh pours, old friends, and new friends on the beloved Northgate. (Don't get me wrong, I had my fair share of tailgatin' and redass fun just prior to kick-off).
We came across some Alabama folk, whom I must say were incredibly pleasant and a pleasure to meet. I've heard awful terrible rumors about not-so-friendly Alabama fans, but the few I crossed paths with today really blew that thought out the water. Throughout the course of the game, we shared hookahs with one-another, cracked jokes, and sipped on mimosas. I'm not sure if college football gets much classier than this, hahaha. The best part: the Alabama fans thanked us for our kindness and generosity, and I quote, "You always hear bout how Aggies are so great and friendly, but y'all really lived up to the expectation…" I couldn't feel more proud to be an Aggie after hearing those words. This just goes to show, people will never fail to amaze you and it's ultimately up to you to make the best of your surroundings.
The Aggies fought long, fought hard, but were unable to defeat 'Bama.
It's okay Ags, we'll get them next time!
First Blog Post, Wooooh!
This is an incredibly exciting moment for me in my life. I've been able to experience and enjoy such a wide spectrum of activities, foods, people, etc, and this is my way of bringing you the best of the best! I am an aspiring fitness fanatic, a crafting junkie, clean eating brat, chocoholic, and aspiring business student. I truly believe and hope I can change the world someday, and this is my first step by leading through example. Many routines of my life are designed to maximize efficiency, happiness, and health, while minimizing stress and any kind of poo-py feeling. I hope that by sharing some glimpses of my life, that I am able to inspire, educate, and bring a smile to your face.
This is only the beginning, and I am screaming on the inside with excitement :)
all my love- Tong-Tong
Welcome to the inner musings and mind gems that I've harnessed from the thought streams that scurry across mind. Here you'll find the experiences, reflections, and learnings I feel worthy of documenting as my journey unfolds.